In the business world, there have been times when I have struggled with a decision. Normally, it is very easy for me to make a quick, decisive decision. I have then been amazed, when on occasion, that I have second guessed the original decision. Here is what I have learned. Deep down, I wanted to choose the other direction, but for some reason chose the other option. I also noticed that there was a “little inner voice” that had counseled against the chosen alternative. Now, I embrace the inner discussion and listen very closely. I listen for the “inner voice” attempts to rationalize a particular decision. The rationalizations are pointing out the direction that I really would like to follow. Instead of struggling over the decision, I embrace the direction of my inner voice. Does this mean that I always make the correct decision? NO! However, I am more comfortable with my decisions and am more accepting of the results – positive or negative.
Next time you are presented with options that require a choice, listen to the arguments that your inner voice makes. That voice will provide the roadmap for your decision. Follow that direction! One exception to this philosophy is to recognize when your inner voice is directing you to do something that does not align with your personal values. If your inner voice is directing you to do something that conflict with your personal values, tell your inner voice to “go jump in the lake” and then do the right thing!
© 2009 – Jim Lindell